Eight sessions. Worked alone.

Most marriage material assumes two people who have already agreed to work on it. This is written for the man who has not got that far - who knows something needs to change, is not ready to sit in a room with a counsellor and his wife, and has been putting it off for months while the gap widens.

What you get

Eight sessions, each on one passage and one decision
Every session ends with a WHEN, an ACTION and an EVIDENCE line, not a reflection
A written failure condition per decision, so one bad week does not end it
A line on every session called: how she can tell without asking
An eight-week tracking page and a closing review

The sessions: the man moves first, what leading costs, the number she does not have, the ninety seconds, coming back after you broke it, provision she can see, listening as a discipline, and who holds you.

Twelve pages. This is not counselling and does not replace it. If there is abuse, addiction or an affair in your house, this is the wrong size of tool and you already know it.

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