Seven decisions, each with a time attached.

Most men do not need to be told to love their wife better. You need to be told what that looks like on a Tuesday at 6:40pm, and how you would know if it stopped happening. That is the whole difference between a goal and a system.

What you get

Seven decisions, each with a WHEN, an ACTION and an EVIDENCE line
A written failure condition for every one, so a bad day does not cost a month
A nine-minute self-audit, scored against the 70% line
A thirty-day tracking grid you fill in on the day, not from memory
One page on what to do with the week you miss, because you will
A line on every decision called: how she can tell without asking

Ten pages. Print it, write on it. It is not finished until it has been marked up.

This is not a devotional and not counselling. No scripture is reprinted here - passages are named so you open your own Bible.

Break the cycle. Build the system. Be the man.
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