The Be The Man Club. $19 a month.

A new habit takes a median of 66 days to become automatic, and for some men up to 254 (Lally, 2010). A one-time download is usually finished long before that. The Club is built for month three and beyond: the framework and the Scorecard the day you join, a new set of tools every month, and men who see your Scorecard. Tracking works best when someone else sees it: across 138 experiments, progress reported to others did better than progress kept private (Harkin, 2016).

$19 a month is less than one workbook. By month six you have the whole library, $147 of tools bought one at a time.

What you get, and when

  • Day one: the members' portal, the full framework (Steps 1 to 7, each with its worksheet), the Weekly Scorecard, Forty Cards and the brotherhood
  • Month 2: the Husband's Devotional and the Couples Conversation Cards
  • Month 3: the Godly Husband Field Guide
  • Month 4: the Father's Field Guide and the Father and Son Cards
  • Month 5: the Christian Marriage Workbook and the Prayer Strategy
  • Month 6: the Men's Bible Study and the Discipleship Workbook
  • Every month: a live members' call with Brian (second Tuesday, 7 to 8 PM Central), one members-only tool that is never sold anywhere, one email a week, and $50 off every live group
  • If you want one: an accountability partner, another member who sees your Scorecard each week

Each month's tools build on the last, in the order the framework runs. Want everything today? Join for the year at $149 and the whole library unlocks the day you join.

What this is not

It is not a group chat. The brotherhood is not a feed to scroll or a place to be motivated. It is where you say out loud what you decided, and where someone notices when you go quiet. Only men in the Club are in it.

There is no badge and no level three. Everyone who joins in the same month gets the same thing on the same day.

Cancel whenever you want. The files you have downloaded are yours to keep. Access to the portal and the brotherhood ends when your membership does.

Step 1 is still free. If you have not done Step 1 yet, do that first. If one page does not change anything in a week, $19 a month will not either.

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